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To make a KIDReport, click here.
  Why We Set Upthe KIDReportline...

In my role of Cyberangels' Executive Director I give several interviews to journalists and tv and radio reporters every day from around the world. On last Wednesday a journalist from the Wall Street Journal called me asking for our reaction to certain Littleton, Colorado tragedy Internet-related matters. (To read our page about the Internet-issues involved and the article in question, click here.)For the first time ever, I was asked a question I couldn't answer with a soundbyte.

Tom asked me whether ferreting out teenagers' sites which threaten violence was law enforcement's job, or that of the school or Internet access providers, or something Cyberangels should be doing? He had assumed that it was someone's responsibility to do something affirmative to find and report these sites.

We talked about free speech and how the Internet brings out the fantasy writer in each of us. How if we reacted to threats people communicate online, either in websites or chats, half the Internet community would be in jail. The article was well written. Tom understood why I thought no one should be scouring the Internet seeking out these sites. He understood the issues, and articulated them better than most other journalists would have been able to.

As pleased as we were with the article and how well Tom had explained the issues, something was bothering me. If Cyberangels said it can't help in this situation, who can? Were we turning our backs on our responsibility to help others in need online? Was there a way to balance privacy and free speech with spotting troubled kids who were speaking out in advance of acting out their violence against themselves or others?

We could play it safe, and ignore the issue. We could continue to speak about open Internet speech and the fact that this is a problem to be resolved by parents and the school. But, Cyberangels isn't Cyberangels for playing it safe. Before it was fashionable we spoke out against pedophile groups online. Before most others, we were searching for cybercrimes, and working with law enforcement to put criminals behind bars. Before others we spotted the dangers of cyberstalking and provided help for victims and tracked the stalkers. But, we can't rest on our laurels. We have to use our vast experience with the Internet and people in trouble online and use it to help avoid another tragedy, such as Jonesboro or Littleton.

That's how the idea for KIDReportline evolved. We needed to do something.

We will take tips only from classmates of the students whose sites are being reported. Adults, whether teachers or parents, can report their suspicions to the school, family members or law enforcement authorities. Classmates often have no place to turn. They are afraid of reporting anything to the school. They may fear reprisals, or be embarrassed to "tell." But classmates are often the only ones who can fully appreciate the risks posed by some of their classmates. They are also usually the only ones who know of fellow classmates' websites.

We will take tips only about students' websites. If the student is threatening violence using another media, we will refer the classmate sending us the tip to report it to their school or elsewhere. Having the violence or threats communicated online allows us to evaluate those sites directly. Our expertise is Internet-related. Other situations will have to be handled by other advocacy groups. We can only handle Internet-related risks.

The tips will be handled directly by me. To protect the privacy of the classmates making the reports, the reports will be sent by email to me, as Cyberangels' Executive Director. No database or data collection mechanism will be used by Cyberangels. To the extent permitted by law, I will keep the identity of the reporting party confidential. Sometimes we expect that the reporting classmate will just need someone to listen to their fears. We will try to be that someone.

We will use the least intrusive measures we believe are advisable. When someone sends us a site which communicates what we think is a credible threat of violence to the student who composed the site, or to others, we will report it to either the school or law enforcement. Sometimes, if we think it is advisable, we will reach out to the student who composed the site himself, offering help. This is the only way we can see to balance the free speech concerns with our desire to help avoid another tragedy because no one listened to the threats. More than anything else, we hope to be a place where you can find someone to listen to your fears and problems.

We hope that by using Cyberangels' website's popularity to communicate this service, and by using our extensive experience with Internet speech and communities online, that we can provide a place that will help, without using Gestapo tactics. We will not seek out any sites, and will respond only to credible reports sent by classmates of Internet sites. It's our way of doing more than talking.

I am interested in hearing your thoughts, and any suggestions for providing help to others in need.

Parry Aftab, Esq.
Executive Director,
Cyberangels

See Reuter's Report