Intervention Tips

We've all been there . . .watched a frustrated, overwhelmed parent in a grocery store struggling with a difficult child. Perhaps we have been that parent. Most of the time, we watch, feeling awkward, not knowing whether or how to intervene in a way that would be helpful.

Sometimes we are reluctant to "get involved."

Sometimes, "getting involved" may prevent serious abuse.

Here are some simple, supportive things to say or do the next time you see a parent struggling with his or her child in a public place:

"He/she seems to be trying your patience."

"It looks as though it has been a long day for both of you."

"My child used to get upset like that."

Strike up a conversation with the parent to divert attention away from the child.

Divert the misbehaving child's attention by talking with the child.

Praise the parent and child at the first opportunity.

If the child is in danger, offer assistance. For example, if a child is left unattended in a grocery cart, stand by the child until the parent returns.

If you know the parent, offer to watch the child so the parent can take a break.

Mother & Child

If you, or someone you know is struggling with a stressful child rearing situation and would like to talk with someone, call:

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